Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Wake up and smell the roses

Walking around the roses always makes me think of my mum and then my nan. So it's a happy time, but I miss them so. This time I also thought of our first trip to Wellington where I sought out the rose garden in the Botanical Gardens. I took photos of nearly all of them to share and show my mum. Back in Auckland we have the Rose Garden in Parnell as well as the Botanical Gardens, so really never far from my mum and nan at all. 

Auckland Botanic Gardens 2015

Auckland Botanic Gardens 2015

Auckland Botanic Gardens 2015

Auckland Botanic Gardens 2015

Auckland Botanic Gardens 2015
My 2008 Rose Collection. When sharing photos of Roses the names come to life in the same way the fragrance does when you walk by them. These are all from my Flickr photo stream, so you should be able to see the title if you hover or some internet magic thing. These were taken with a Casio EX-Z1000 and I can pretty much guarantee back then I would have been shooting on auto. 

Oranges and Lemons

Auckland Metro

Burgundy Iceberg

Katherine Mansfield

Sylvia

Blackberry Nip

My Girl

Onto 2012 and the Rose Garden at Parnell. Here I am playing with the Hipstamatic app on the phone. the phone has added a whole new world to my photography but in even in the short time since I took these photos so much has changed. 




Walk 41

[The below post was written way way back it seems, but I had intended it to be the post that wrapped up this little series. I haven't changed it at all and as I face my birthday in 2015 I do find myself wondering quite a lot]


Back at my birthday October 2014. So while this series took a little while to finish, this is the way to wrap this series up has to be here. This walk. That has so many memories. From Hahei beach to Cathedral Cove. My first birthday in New Zealand was spent here. I stood happy with the place to ourselves as the sun set, dusk came and we realised we'd better move it to get back before dark. We kayaked back the next day as my birthday treat. Coolest thing. We visited in the summer and had to share the beach, but we swam and snorkelled. We brought friends on the walk and then we brought my mum. It has been a place that my mum has always wanted to visit and when the hopes of her getting to NZ under her own steam (or funding) faded the realisation that some things just had to be done grew. We got her to Oz for the christening of her goddaughters son, then those amazing friends brought her to New Zealand. There was no question we'd come here. She came and went by boat. One of the best days ever, swimming with my mum in the sea at Cathedral Cove. 
So birthday 2014, back to the Coromadel in the van. Camping joy, swimming in the sea very early at Hahei, then ignoring the weather forecast (but packing for it anyway - it turned out sunny) we walked again. 
I stood with the happy memories that make me smile and cry at the same time. Wondering how many more times will I walk here. Watching life around me, when we don't know what will come from left field. Can we know how long we can keep walking. That pleasure of mine, that I take for granted but have tried to capture here. In what was meant as a year long project to celebrate my 41st birthday has seen me dawdle along till 2015. Now 43, but still walking. 

The van happy in it's spot at the wondrous Hahei campsite

Just thinking and paddling at Cathedral Cove

Now time to rest
The feet that I am so grateful for, that and the legs that keep going. Thank you for being able to walk

The first and last site of the beach at Cathedral Cove

Day twenty five. Today is…..

Merry Christmas
Today is a joyful wonder of mess. I am mightily impressed by how much mess two adults can make on Christmas morning. A sign of a blessed childhood methinks.
Thank you all for the great gifts. 

Day Three. The Best day of 2014

Given some of the news I have had over this year I would say the best day is every day I have been alive and upright. The question though, at a time when I am underpar  thoughtful and contemplative was a good one. I considered looking back over my blog, my flickr photos or even (heaven forgive) actually sorting my photos into some semblance of order and getting organised to make the calendars for christmas presents. None of that happened, my cold, my body and my mind told me to sit and read and that actually I already know the answer. 

Me and my mum at Cathedral Cove
As I walk up from the beach after our trip to Cathedral Cove, this was the view.
Happiness beyond belief. 

1st


Not from today, but as the power goes in my phone, and I realise that after an amazingly pumping week at work it is the 1st of August. So searching my photos and thanking the universe for the prompt. Lunch. This was earlier this year. One of those happy places we return to time after time but this photo was extra special. My mum was there, sharing lunch with me. A happy happy time. Her friend and my close family down under is there is the background. Thank you for the happy lunch memories.

Walk 33 - Whangerai

I've been admiring posts about weekending

The weekend that was by Leonie Wise

Weekending on the Habit of Being

They are helping me morph into this weekday worker. I am such a slow learner. It's a process I guess. 

So this weekend we were in Whangerai visiting the family and we took a stroll after lunch along a walkway. Warm autumn day, we all relished the weather, knowing the rain can't be far away. 













Fifth


My August Break seems to be about creating traditions, or maybe I lack imagination. This quote comes from a jar my mother gave me when I left the UK. It's called '365' wishes for my daughter and it is delightful. I don't delve into everyday - well 5 years on and I'm still working my way through them. It's soothes yet extends the heartache of living away from friends and family. I stayed away from work today, sick, slept all day, so I needed a wish from my mum and this was it. So I think that is her way of saying get back out their girl. 

Does a wedding count?

Not really a walk but I did fly to Adelaide for the weekend for a wedding. What a great, emotional, crying, smiling, laughing, eating, talking, laughing, bubbly, smiling some more kind of weekend.
This is my family in the southern hemisphere. Where I get that unconditional welcoming love and the chance to be whatever I need to be.
It was a tough weekend on some levels and the desire to have my mum with me was so great, but she was with us, smiling, laughing, eating, talking and all that, but I would have had her on the bubbles.









In the planning



I do like a list, or a plan, or anything project like really. So with only two weeks to go we have a plan. We went round the houses with the possibilities and then the discussion of van hire/storage/shipping, which to be honest we haven't really resolved nor have we worked out exactly how Duncan will get the wardrobe to Folkestone from Darlington, but heh. It will work out, it will change and you know what, that is fine, because as much as I like a plan, I also enjoy a bit of chaos and challenge.
There is much to be done and many people to see, and I get a little tired if I think about it, so I hope we folks understand.


The Trip
1 - fly in land Heathrow 1615 (clearly the flight times (see fly out time) are why the  flight was the cheapest)- stay at mums
2 - up to Folkestone - Dover castle with Dad Shelia, Jane and kids - stay at Dads
3 - day in Folkestone
4 - Canterbury with Dad and Shelia
5 - day with mum
6 - divide and conquer
Adam - gets to Darlington
        KT - gets to Birmingham for wedding at 3pm (need somewhere to stay)
7 - KT gets to Ellsmere port 
8 - with Di
9 - train up to Darlington - sort stuff out there 
10 - drive to The Lakes
11 - at Lakes
12 - back to Darlington 
13 - Drive south - stopping at grandads en route - stay Hastings (Jayne or Lizzie)
14 - sort stuff out at Lizzie's - ?meal out with work guys
15 - couple of days in Hastings
16
17 - 
18 - 
19 -   
20 - 
21 - flight out - need to be at Heathrow around 6pm - sorry should have thought that flight through a bit better! 


At some point between days 17 and 19 we'll get to see and stay with the wonderful Emma, and there is car hire in there somewhere which Adam has totally under control. 

I have goodies to bring back for folks, and my reading organised, a wedding outfit (that is warm weather dependent), so almost sorted then. 

Balance required

It appears the combination of a new job and visiting in laws has wrenched from the ability to do anything! Well maybe a slight exaggeration but it feels like it. The flowers didn't arrive for my mothers birthday - though I did at least remember to phone. Several other birthdays have been missed. I have a stack of postcards that I have dutifully brought on various outings waiting to be written, there is even a rather amazing gift to be posted. Does 'sorry' quite do it? Will I be forgiven?
Stupid tasks around the house and garden have not been done - everywhere I look there are reminders of my ineptitude disorganization and general inability to do. Maybe I'm too hard on myself but maybe the scales have tipped too much in favor of work. You see I love my new job and there are so many things to learn, projects to tackle and generally things to get a grip on. It's brilliantly exhausting and clearly taking my all, well that and trying to adjust to Monday to Friday working after 20 years of shift work.
The in-laws are on a ten week visit which is coming to an end soon, we haven't traveled around as much as last year but we showed them the Coromandel and more of the Auckland region. There has been birthday BBQs, train rides, fireworks and lots of cake. They love being here and Adam has someone to take fishing, plus he and his dad have tinkered about with the van and the car! However it's made it difficult for me to find the routine I thought I'd get with this job as they arrived before I took up this new post. So still looking for that balance.
Well a weekend of WOMAD won't have done me any harm, booked an annual leave day and after just a little melt down hit the road in the van and have had a fabulous time. Really but remember to book the Monday off as well next year, so we won't be traveling back through the night having left after The Black Seeds. Brought a stack of clothes - none of which I'll able to wear to work, though the henna tattoo will still be there!

Fifteenth


Fifteenth, originally uploaded by KTandCoffee.
When I moved to New Zealand, my mum gave me this lovely jar - with 'a year of wishes for my daughter'. Three years on, I'm still not through all the wishes. Like a mothers love, just goes on and on. Thanks mum x

Number 100

Wow, my 100th blog post. How much waffle? Well it seems kind of appropriate then, as I started this blog to chronicle my move to New Zealand and let people know what I've been up too, that todays post is for people coming to visit us this year. Yep, having been here for nearly three years we have our first visitors (did no-one think I was going to stay!). As usual though I'm late,  the first visitors arrived a couple of days ago so these tips are wasted on them, but we'd have thousands of phone calls in the lead up and I think they're prepared!! It was wonderful meeting them at the airport and Adam is well chuffed to show his parents around.

I do have a friend and her family visiting later in the year so here you go, tip tips for travelling to New Zealand.

Firstly - sun protection. I thought I was OK in the sun, usually tanned well with no burning, how wrong was I over here. Sunburnt in the first couple of weeks, really not a good look and a wee bit sore - and I'd put some sun cream on! The second summer I got burnt on my back after getting into the snorkelling stuff and Adam had terrible sunburn this year. So what I'm saying is; the sun really is stronger here and you really need to be aware. I wear a SPF 30 on my face year round, and recently ran out so had to resort to my SPF 15 and boy did I know it, and it wasn't a full on sunny day. So good sun protection cream then plus a hat. I look stupid in a hat but I wear them a lot here and it really does the job. That and cool, long sleeved tops etc so that you can cover up if you need to. Then it's really just the sensible advice of keeping out of the sun at the hottest part of the day, drinking plenty of water etc. We have a sun shade tent we take to the beach for a bit of shade and a marquee type thingy in the garden to give some shade out there.

Drawing on my early experience of New Zealand my second point would be insects!! I had such a bad reaction to a mozzie bite I was on antibiotics, now I know not everyone is as juicy and tasty as me, but it's a warning. They bite, they itch, they swell and I won't even go into sandflies - they are well covered in all guide books to NZ!! So add an insect repellent to your list and a soother of your preference for when they get you (and if they don't bite you I will be very very jealous and maybe a little bitter).

Sticking with the nature theme, I think the weather deserves a mention. It's true, you really can have four seasons in one day. So be prepared. Rain is really wet, seriously the english think they do weather but the Kiwis have it covered I'm afraid. I did try planning activities around the weather forecast. Nah, forget it, just do it, but have a raincoat and warm top etc for any great change. Don't worry about getting wet. The place looks great even in the rain and wind. Then ten minutes later it will be baking hot, humid and sticky. There are seasons, and up here in Auckland we get a touch of frost in winter, but head a bit further south and you notice the change in temperatures, so the time of year makes a difference to the the temps but really it can be all over the place. I'm descending into waffle so I think I'm just trying to say bring a selection of clothes to cover all eventualities and if you're heading to the south island that means snow as well.

Am I selling the place, maybe not, but I haven't moved on yet have I so it must have something!

We're based in Auckland at the moment and while we've travelled around a great deal, there are certainly a great number of places to see and things to do in our immediate area, so here's a taster for your trip.....


Maritime Museum and do the harbour tour

Auckland Museum great for kids

Devonport gives a great view of the city, great beach and the tunnels to explore

Mission Bay for the atmosphere and ice cream

Sky Tower for afternoon tea, but the kids might want to go to

Auckland Zoo is a good day out

The Waitakere Ranges are a must

Auckland Regional Parks are all fab for walking, exploring and enjoying the outdoors

Mt Eden is a usual tourist visit and has wonderful places for coffee

Cornwall Park is our local and a fantastic place to visit

Goat Island isn't too far a drive and a great spot for snorkelling

Rainbows End is the theme park, but I haven't been yet

There is an Auckland Explorer Bus

Kelly Tarlton's is pretty cool

A drive north will take you to Sheep World

That's all for now folks!!

Summer's here, but I've been to Australia


You can tell it's summer, the blog posts are fewer, I'm outside, I get behind with everything, just enjoying the sun and the outdoors, I wish I could share more about the great stuff we get up too. So here I am, I've been to Australia, OK, back in October, and the middle of October at that, it was a epic moment, those days of waiting to get our passports back. All sorted, done and dusted, free to travel again.
So I though lots about the blog while in Oz, the wine, the vineyards, the wildlife. I had great ideas, interesting information and facts about places I saw, historic mining communities, wildlife parks, Kangaroo island, facts about animals, beaches and early exploration of Australia. I kept notes. The whole time I was thinking....so this is Australia, what was I expecting. It felt like a mystery, how I love going to new places.
In the lead up to leaving and on the journey itself, I did find myself having to explain why I was going to Adelaide for my first visit to Australia. Not the usual, nor the place people would expect (how I love to be just a little different). Well there was actually no choice for me, nor did I want to go anywhere else until I had been to Adelaide. It was imperative you could say.
You know those people who aren't, but really are family, they hold such a special place in you, they've been there since you were born. They've been there through the heart surgery and boat sinking. They've taken you on countless visits to Dover Castle and Howletts. They cheer and cry and then they cut jam sandwich's into your name.
My mother's dear friend, Julie is this woman. She and her family moved to oz 16 years ago, and it turns out I haven't seen them for 10 years (though it really doesn't feel like it). They live in Adelaide and we arrive a couple of days after my birthday to a rapturous welcome of tears and hugs at the airport. It really was quite dramatic. She had sorted out birthday cake as a surprise for that night and this touched me it a really special way.

To feel so welcomed and at home in seconds is a wonderful gift - the photos placed in my honour helped but their home is a big reminder of friends, family and good times. To have that feeling of love and specialness bestowed upon me was comforting and reassuring and made me realise how much I miss that unconditional love you get from those you are very close too. It made me miss my family and friends but appreciate what I have and the great time Julie and Ben showed us. Great hosts, all perfect.
So it was a nurturing and comforting time, a time for lots of wine, lots of photos in rather dubious places, times for lots of laughing.
South Australia does has some rather lovely vineyards, we first visited the McClaren Vale area, got onto a large empty stage and gave our rendition of the Simply Red play list, still stuck to the stage floor from the weekend before concert. This was of course near the end of the day wine tasting. Did I mention we could take back 6 bottles of wine each (well we couldn't cos our bags were too heavy, but we tried).
Our weekend away to Burra, had the crucial elements of historic Cornish mining stuff, Ozzie bars in their prime and more vineyards. Clare Vally - home of the Riesling and the Barrosa valley, home to those big names and I was rather a bit excited at being at Jacobs Creek.

Did I mention we went to Kangaroo Island, a two day trip, to the 133rd largest island in the world (thank you Lonely Planet), and saw rather a lot of wildlife and great beaches. So yep, cuddled a Koala (rather special I thought) and fed Kangaroos (rather cute). Lots more photos on flickr, take a lookie if you fancy. I will take this chance though, to say a huge thank you to Julie and Ben for the unbelievable welcome, time and just great time we had with them.

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